When you start to change, the people around you hinder you? Does anyone have such experiences, when you are determined to change those around you, there is little encouragement, but a lot of opposition and obstruction, even from family or fren, because this forces them to adapt again or accept losses. For example, if there is someone in your dorm who used to please you by bringing you meals and picking up your packages every day, you have gotten used to it, and now he suddenly says he won't do it anymore, how do you feel? It's an instinct, especially when we are the beneficiaries; making a quick retreat is quite difficult, even if willing, it requires a process. At this moment, if you are the one changing, the people around you are actually very scared; they fear you will not meet their needs, they fear you will no longer be as obedient as before, and these are risks for them. Similarly, other changes can be substituted; for example, if you used to be the outspoken one, often confronting the leaders on behalf of everyone, and now you don't want to speak anymore, you will find others encouraging you to continue doing so, so they can hide behind you. Or if you used to be quiet and merely a backdrop for everyone, and now suddenly start to express yourself, they will also not adapt, even advising you to be low-key, saying you are not good enough; essentially, it is all the same. You have disrupted the balance of the originally functioning group. Once we realize this, we can let go of excessive expectations of the outside world. For example, before you might worry about why everyone is like this, trying to obstruct you, making you more miserable, even starting to regret your changes, doubting whether you have gone too far. Now you can treat it more calmly; I know my changes will provoke some people's dislike or discomfort, it’s okay. I know I am breaking some kind of balance, and you will let go of many expectations of the outside world, allowing you to face why they do this with greater calmness. #Gate七月透明度报告发布# #BTC ETF持仓破1530亿美元# #美联储终止新型活动监管#